December 2008


“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”1

June (name changed), A Daily Encounter reader, writes, “My daughter has been suffering from mental illness (schizophrenia) since she was 20. She has been on medication for 7 years. Because of her illness I took to drinking so I could get to sleep at night. Now I’m addicted to alcohol and can’t break the habit. I’ve been trying for two years to overcome but to no avail. Can you please help?

Unfortunately this anguished mother is not alone. In a survey report from George Barna: “One out of every eight (12%) noted that they are ‘dealing with an addiction’ that personally haunts them.”2

Following is what I suggested to June: Giving up any addiction is never easy and you need to realize that you can’t overcome this kind of struggle in your own strength or by going it alone. We’re not meant to do this. The Bible teaches us to “bear one another’s burdens.” This is why you need the support of understanding “fellow strugglers” such as those in an AA (Alcohol Anonymous) support group—as well as God’s help.

Oftentimes, too, there is a deeper hidden cause behind addictions. So I suggest that you ask God if there is a deeper cause that he will reveal this to you. Also ask God to lead you to the help you need to resolve this cause as well as overcome your addiction.

I also urge you to join an AA twelve-step support group as this can be a vital part of your recovery. For Alcoholic Anonymous (and other addictive) Groups your pastor, doctor or the social services in your area should be able to tell you how to find and contact a local AA group. Or you can get information from the AA web site at http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org/.

Daily Encounter … Overcoming Alcoholism [Tuesday, April 15, 2008]

“When the Son of Man [Jesus Christ] returns, it will be like it was in Noah’s day. In those days, the people enjoyed banquets and parties and weddings right up to the time Noah entered his boat and the flood came and destroyed them all.”1

Bruce Ferris wrote, “My wife and I recently saw a television show on The History Channel titled, ‘The Man Who Predicted 911.’ Long before September 11th, Rick Rescorla, the 62-year-old head of security at the Morgan Stanley Bank, developed an evacuation plan for the bank. The bank’s offices were situated high up in the South Tower at the World Trade Center. Rescorla was convinced that Osama Bin Laden would use jet planes to try and destroy the World Trade Center. The plan and its preparation were hugely unpopular with the Morgan Stanley staff, many of whom thought Rescorla was mad.

“On September 11, 2001, American Airlines Flight 11 hit World Trade Center Tower 1 at 8:46 am. Rick Rescorla ignored building officials’ advice to stay put and began the orderly evacuation of Morgan Stanley’s 2,800 employees on 20 floors of World Trade Center Tower 2, and 1,000 employees in WTC 5. Rescorla reminded everyone to ‘be proud to be an American … everyone will be talking about you tomorrow,’ and sang God Bless America and other songs over his bullhorn to help evacuees stay calm as they left the building. Rescorla had most of Morgan Stanley’s 2800 employees as well as people working on other floors of WTC 2 safely out of the buildings by the time United Airlines Flight 175 hit WTC 2 at 9:07 a.m.

“After having reached safety, Rescorla returned to the building to rescue others still inside. He was last seen heading up the stairs of the tenth floor of the collapsing WTC 2. His remains were not recovered. As a result of Rescorla’s actions, only six of Morgan Stanley’s 2800 WTC employees were killed on September 11th, 2001, including Rick and three of his deputies who followed him back into the building.

“The remainder of this very moving broadcast focused on Morgan Stanley Bank employees who, now in tears, were praising and acknowledging Rick Rescorla for having saved their lives from total destruction that day. Many felt so guilty and apologetic [because] they had thought Rick foolish to keep preaching and standing for what he believed would happen if they were not ready. Those interviewed said they would never forget Rick Rescorla. He was their hero.”2

The first coming of Jesus Christ is an indisputable fact of history. Be assured, his second coming will be just as certain. His first coming was to give his life to die on the cruel Roman cross to pay the just penalty for your sins and mine so we could receive God’s forgiveness and his gift of eternal life. His second coming will be as King of kings and Lord of lords and to bring judgment on all who have failed or refused to accept God’s warning and gift of forgiveness and salvation.

While ancient Noah built the ark he was mocked and ridiculed. None but his immediate family believed God’s warning about the impending flood. And as Jesus has warned, it will be the same when he returns to judge the world and destroy all who have rejected his gift of salvation.

Daily Encounter … God’s “Security” Team [Monday, April 14, 2008]

“It is good to praise the LORD and make music to your name, O Most High, to proclaim your love in the morning and your faithfulness at night.”1

According to Michael Shannon, “In Reed, North Carolina, you will find the Reed gold mine. It was first excavated in 1799 when Conrad Reed discovered a strange rock on the Reed farm. In 1802, a jeweler in Fayetteville offered Reed $3.50 for the rock. It turns out the rock was gold and was actually worth $3,600 dollars. What did Reed do with the rock for three years? He used it as a doorstop at his house. How often are we oblivious to the true value of things?”2

I don’t know about you but I find it all too easy to be blind to the endless blessings daily at my door step and take these for granted. I am afraid that this is especially so in much of the free world where most of us have never suffered real persecution, experienced terrorism first hand, gone hungry, been homeless, and pretty much have all of our personal needs and many of our wants—often extravagant wants—met.

And, tragically, here in the West so many feel that the world owes them a living. Too soon we forget that the freedoms we enjoy were paid dearly for us by previous generations—many of whom gave their lives to purchase our freedom. How soon we forget that “eternal vigilance is still the price of liberty [freedom],” and that “blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord.”3

Every day I make an effort to thank God for all the incredible blessings that I experience daily. As the chorus of the old time hymn we used to sing with great enthusiasm in years gone by encourages:

Count your blessings, name them one by one,
Count your blessings, see what God hath done!
Count your blessings, name them one by one,

And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.4

Suggested prayer:

“Dear God, please open the eyes of my understanding so that I will no longer be blind to the endless blessings you have given to me every day of my life. Most of all I thank you for the incredible blessing that you have given to all mankind—the blessing of giving your Son, Jesus, to die on the cross to pay the penalty for all our sins, and for your gift of forgiveness and that of eternal life. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully in Jesus name, amen.”

1.  Psalm 92:1-2 (NIV).
2. J. Michael Shannon, Source: Preaching.com http://tinyurl.com/2cxgrg
3. Psalm 33:12
4. Johnson Oatman, Jr.

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Daily Encounter … Count Your Blessings [Friday, April 11, 2008]

From the Apostle Paul: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.”1

Josh McDowell tells about an executive headhunter who recruits corporate executives for large firms. This headhunter once told McDowell that when he interviews an executive, he likes to disarm him. I offer him a drink, said the headhunter, take off my coat, undo my tie, throw up my feet and talk about baseball, football, family, whatever, until he’s all relaxed. Then, when I think I’ve got him relaxed, I lean over, look him square in the eye and say, “What’s your purpose in life?” It’s amazing how top executives fall apart at that question.

“Then he told about interviewing one fellow recently. He had him all disarmed, had his feet up on his desk, talking about football. Then the headhunter leaned over and said, What’s your purpose in life, Bob? And the executive said, without blinking an eye, To go to heaven and take as many people with me as I can.

For the first time in my career, said the headhunter, I was speechless.2

I’ve asked this same question to scores of people over the years in seminars I have led. Just about everybody believes God has a God-given life purpose for them, but when I ask them what it is, very few have ever carefully thought it through and written it down.

If we want to die well, we need to live well, and if we are to live well, it is imperative that we know what our God-given life purpose is and with God’s help give it our best shot.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please help me to discern my God-given life purpose so that I know exactly what it is. And please help to fulfill this purpose so when I come to the end of my life’s journey, I will know that I have not lived in vain. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. 2 Timothy 4:7-8, (NIV).
2. Dr. Gary Nicolosi, “Preparing for the End Time,” sermon, www.stbartschurch.org/sermarch/sb110799.html

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Daily Encounter … What’s Your Purpose in Life? [Thursday, April 10, 2008]


“If Jesus came to your house to spend a day or two / If He came unexpectedly, I wonder what you’d do. / Oh, I know you’d give your nicest room to such an honored Guest, / And all the food you’d serve to Him would be the very best, / And you’d keep assuring Him you’re glad to have Him there / That serving Him in your own home is joy beyond compare.

“But when you saw Him coming, would you meet Him at the door / With arms outstretched in welcome to your heavenly Visitor? / Or would you have to change your clothes before you let Him in? / Or hide some magazines and put the Bible where they’d been? / Would you turn off the radio and hope He hadn’t heard? / And wish you hadn’t uttered that last, loud, hasty word?

“Would you hide your worldly music and put some hymn books out? / Could you let Jesus walk right in, or would you rush about? / And I wonder if the Savior spent a day or two with you, / Would you go right on doing the things you always do? / Would you go right on saying the things you always say? / Would life for you continue as it does from day to day? / Would your family conversation keep up its usual pace? / And would you find it hard each meal to say a table grace? / Would you sing the songs you always sing, / and read the books you read, / And let him know the things on which your mind and spirit feed? / Would you take Jesus with you everywhere you’d planned to go? / Or would you, maybe, change your plans for just a day or so?

“Would you be glad to have Him meet your very closest friends? / Or would you hope they’d stay away until His visit ends? / Would you be glad to have Him stay forever on and on? / Or would you sigh with great relief when He at last was gone? / It might be interesting to know the things that you would do? / If Jesus Christ in person came to spend some time with you.”

– Credited to Lois Blanchard Eades.

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This one’s just right for the season…

Somehow not only for Christmas
But all the long year through,
The joy that you give to others
Is the joy that comes back to you.

-E. B. White

We’ll begin with a box, and the plural is boxes / But the plural of ox becomes oxen, not oxes. / One fowl is a goose, but two are called geese, / Yet the plural of moose should never be meese. / You may find a lone mouse or a nest full of mice, / Yet the plural of house is houses, not hice. / If the plural of man is always called men, / Why shouldn’t the plural of pan be called pen? / If I speak of my foot and show you my feet, / And I give you a boot, would a pair be called beet? / If one is a tooth and a whole set are teeth, / Why shouldn’t the plural of booth be called beeth?

Then one may be that, and three would be those, / Yet hat in the plural would never be hose, / and the plural of cat is cats, not cose. / We speak of a brother and also of brethren, / but though we say mother, we never say methren. / Then the masculine pronouns are he, his and him, / but imagine if the feminine were: she, shis and shim!

Let’s face it … English is a crazy language.

There is no egg in eggplant nor ham in hamburger; neither apple nor pine in pineapple. English muffins weren’t invented in England.

We take English for granted, but if we explore its paradoxes, we find that quicksand can work slowly, boxing rings are square, and a guinea pig is neither from Guinea nor is it a pig. And why is it that writers write but fingers don’t fing, grocers don’t groce and hammers don’t ham?

Doesn’t it seem crazy that you can make amends but not one amend. If you have a bunch of odds and ends and get rid of all but one of them, what do you call it? If teachers taught, why didn’t preachers praught? If a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat?

Sometimes I think all the folks who grew up speaking English should be committed to an asylum for the verbally insane. In what other language do people recite at a play and play at a recital? We ship by truck but send cargo by ship. We have noses that run and feet that smell. We park in a driveway and drive in a parkway.

And how can a slim chance and a fat chance be the same, while a wise man and a wise guy are opposites? You have to marvel at the unique lunacy of a language in which your house can burn up as it burns down, in which you fill in a form by filling it out, and in which an alarm goes off by going on.

And in closing, if father is pop, how come mother’s not mop?

Bill’s PunchLine by Bill Rayburn bill@billrayborn.com

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“Don’t prepare the path for the child, prepare the child for the path.” – Anonymous

“What is powerful is when what you say is just the tip of the iceberg of what you know.” – Jim Rohn

“In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity” – Albert Einstein

“Don’t worry that children never listen to you. Worry that they are always watching you.” – Robert Fulghum

“Don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones tend to take care of themselves.” – Dale Carnegie

“The organization that can’t communicate can’t change, and the corporation that can’t change is dead.” – Nido Qubein

“People do not decide to become extraordinary. They decide to accomplish extraordinary things.” – Sir Edmund Hilary

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“For in the day of trouble He [God] will keep me safe in his dwelling; He will hide me in the shelter of his tabernacle and set me high upon a rock.”1

“In the movie, The Bear,’ a bear cub whose mother died took up with a male bear. They traveled together. One of my favorite parts happened when they got separated and the little bear came upon a mountain lion. When the mountain lion came at the cub he stood up trying to scare it away. The mountain lion all of a sudden started backing away. The little bear cub thought he had scared him away but what had really happened was that the big bear came up behind the little bear. It wasn’t the cub but the big bear that frightened the lion away. We may not look very frightening [to our enemy, the devil] but we have a Father that is all powerful [standing behind us]“2

For example: in the following poem, “Hide-and-Seek,” I have written:

“Sometimes it seems that life / makes little or no sense / as we wander blind searching for a ray of light / to lead us to the truth / or to a God who isn’t there. / But if we will stand still and / listen with our heart we will / hear a rustling in the leaves, feel the brush of angel’s wings, / and sense the presence of a loving / Father playing hide-and-seek, waiting patiently / wanting us to find him.”3

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, thank you that when I commit and trust my life and way to you on a daily basis, you are always present to be my guide and help—regardless of whether I feel your presence or not. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully in Jesus name, amen.”

Note: Hide-and-Seek poem available (framed or non-framed) at: http://tinyurl.com/33g35b

1. Psalm 27:5 (NIV).
2. Sharon Stonestreet on www.SermonCentral.com.
3. Dick Innes © Copyright.

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Daily Encounter … Hiding in the Shadows [Wednesday, April 9, 2008]

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”1

Charles H. Spurgeon said, “Stars may be seen from the bottom of a deep well when they cannot be seen from the top of the mountain. So many things are learned in adversity which the prosperous man dreams not of.”

Ovid wrote, “The road to triumph is built by adversity.”

Walt Disney stated: “All the adversity I’ve had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me…. You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.”

John Adams agreed. He said, “People and nations are forged in the fires of adversity.”

Patrick Henry believed that “adversity toughens manhood, and the characteristic of the good or the great man, is not that he has been exempted from the evils of life, but that he has surmounted them.”2

I have to personally admit that if there is any depth of quality in the Daily Encounters I write, it has come out of many years of trials and disappointments. It is true, as God’s Word teaches: adversity is one of our greatest teachers.

And as Stan Mitchell said, “The child of God cannot attain spiritual completeness without facing trials. The Africans have a saying: ‘After the rain, come the flowers.’” And then Mitchell asks, “So how does your garden grow?”

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, thank you for the trials and adversity you have allowed me to experience in order to help me become the person you want me to be. May my trials always help me to become better and never bitter. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully in Jesus name, amen.

1. James 1:2-4 (NIV).
2. The above quotes were from www.SermonCentral.com

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Daily Encounter … How Does Your Garden Grow? [Monday, April 7, 2008]